最近忙什麼? Camp Prep
總覺得最近生活過得很忙碌. 同時間也覺得很充實.
可是充實不代表想做的事情有全部做到.
下個週末是我們教會青年初次舉辦 camp 活動.
全部由我們青年來籌備. 過去一個禮拜, 平均回家時間有三天是12am.
越去想就越多東西要準備. 多次的開會/gather, 雖然很累, 不過心裡是充滿喜悅.
期待下星期的來臨~~
不必要的誤會
人越是長大了, 就越難表達自己. No, that’s not totally correct.
人老了, 就不會表達自己. No, that’s not right either.
怎麼說呢? 小時候天真無邪的各位, 想什麼就說什麼.
友誼愛情阿什麼關係都很直接. 長大以後, 我們都發現世上很多”假人”, 也有很多”怪人”.
Some of these people are scared of “confrontation”; so scared that it’s sad. They are a most stubborn group of people, who have absolute terror of expressing emotions. To do this they avoid confrontation at all costs, which ends up starting the most heated fights because it frustrates and confuses the other party.
Confrontation不一定指吵架, 意思說要跟對方表達自己的意思. 不講的話, 對方永遠不知道. People can’t read each other’s minds, except psychics. 很多時候會用藉口來 justify自己的做法. 也許他們不知道正在創造不必要的誤會.
很多時候他們覺得自己不需要人關心. 一切正常. 那與其把事情說出來, 倒不如不說. 讓他們”自生自滅”算了 
在世上這種例子多的是, 記得眼看明明是好朋友的朋友們, 突然變成什麼話都不說, 還雙方都不知道為什麼. 未免有點太可惜了吧? 也許默默的祈禱才是唯一能我能做到的. May God bless.
For Guys: How to make a woman happy
The mystery between men and women has always been a hot topic amongst society. The similarities, the difference, the WAY WE DO THINGS - it’s all just so not the same. Honest communication is always the key to less arguments, but how to achieve this? Well, the article below will at least give an insight into men and women’s communication styles, and for men, how to make women happy!
I found this article from Matrimony Xpress blog, but they actually got the article from Warm Wisdom Press. Anyway, a copy below for sharing 
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How to make a woman happy
Men, get ready. You are about to discover the secret that will revolutionize your relationships. You are going to learn how to make the love of your life happy.
And it isn’t as expensive and complicated as you may think. The secret is known as the three “A’s”. Integrating these elements into your daily life will guarantee you an exciting, loving, and dynamic relationship. The three “A’s” are attention, affection and appreciation. If you give your wife the attention she needs, the affection she longs for and the appreciation she deserves, then you are definitely going to make her happy.
Men and Women are Different.
They are definitely, undeniably different from each other. And one of the ways in which those differences come out is in the needs that each one has from a relationship.
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Desserts for Fundraising
上星期的涼茶(菊花茶)義賣的反應 so so.
這次我們來挑戰做中式甜點義賣.
總共十一個人 (in and out), 有人下午六點開動, 有人做到凌晨一點…
我們做了五種甜點:
1. 椰汁糕
2. 千層糕
3. 大菜糕
4. 西米露
5. 白雪軟凍 (有多餘材料而另加的)
有做成功的食物, 也有做失敗的食物…
累積下來的經驗, 就是要讓下次的義賣更成功!
Harbour Town Shopping
好久沒試過為了sale而逛街了!!
今天與Eda&Leah一起到 Harbour Town Gold Coast 買衣服.
沒想到Leah收穫最豐富. super lucky girl.
感覺一年去逛兩三次就已經很不錯了.
為什麼衣服要賣那麼貴??
買不起啦…. T_T
Rainbow Conrad Treasury Casino
Can’t believe I didn’t arrive home till around 9:40pm tonight!! I’m exhausted…
One or two weeks ago on my way to class, my car stopped at the traffic lights after crossing the bridge. I then saw the colourful flashing lights around the Conrad Treasury Casino - such a beautiful display! Well, since I stopped right in front of it, might as well record it and upload it hey? I think that might have been a River Fires preparation thing… because I haven’t seen these colourful lights after the fireworks. On the contrary, what grabbed my attention post-River Fires was the giant white ferris wheel at Southbank. It reminds me of the ferris wheel at Sea World and the one at Osaka. Maybe all cities will eventually have a ferris wheel of their own…
沒想到我今晚居然會九點四十幾分才回到家!! 好累…
一兩個禮拜前, 上課途中, 好巧過橋的時候車子被紅綠燈停下來. 看見布市賭場外的燈光, 彩色又一直變色, 真壯觀ㄚ! 反正都停下來了, 就給他錄起來 
那好像是 River Fires 的準備? 因為之後我都沒看見這樣的燈光了. 反而是 Southbank 那裡多了白色的巨大摩天輪. 這讓我想起 Seaworld 和大阪的摩天倫. 我想, 很快就會每個城市都有自己的摩天倫了.
FYI: The music in the background is an old song by Kinki Kids being played in the car, and the clicking sound is my signal light for turning right…
Sorrowful Narrow-Mind’s
Some people in this world are so, so, VERY narrow-minded, that it’s really sad to see them like that :S All I can do is pray for them… and I wish I can help them more…
This seems to occur more with girls/ladies who still act like junior high school kids, and occasionally with boys/guys who read too much of those whatever novels/poems you call them. It’s the way they do things and react to events that distinguish stingy people.
Some traits of this kind of people… they:
- don’t realise it themselves
- think they’re awesome
- think they’re “innocent”
- think they’re the sufferers
- take people for granted
- take things for granted
- like to ignore people
- jealous of others
- do things out of spite
- think the whole world treats them badly
- may think they’re more “superior”
- lack respect in general
- don’t believe they’re spoiling the mood for everyone
- have many versions of the same event
- tell lies to cover up their lies
- persuade themselves that what they’re doing is right
And sarcastically, some of these are traits of the terrorist mind… @Q@ also with suicide bombers.
t.b.c.