Manipulative and Controlling People include:
People who do not trust in anyone.
People who thinks they’re the center of the world.
People who have no respect for others.

Simply put, I absolutely and wholeheartedly HATE that kind of people. Full stop.
See more examples of what these people do at this link: How to Recognize a Manipulative or Controlling Relationship


Main points as follows, and can be applied to both males and females:
1. Evaluate honestly: Is this relationship progressing in a healthy manner, or is it unhealthy?
2. Recognize your blindness to his/her faults.
3. Do you find yourself apologizing or defending your significant other’s behavior?
4. Notice if your plans are continually overturned in favor of hers.
5. Remember that manipulation is when they get you to do something you really wish you hadn’t.
6. Watch for efforts to exert financial control.
7. Look for subtle establishment of control over time.
8. Watch out for subtle discrepancies.
9. Keep your support system.
10. Recognize excessive jealousy or possessiveness as a danger signal.
11. Watch for repeat offenses, shallow apologies and courting afterwards.
12. Beware of the “backhanded compliment”.
13. Don’t let every minor disagreement become World War III.
14. Stop berating yourself for being into this person.
15. Assess whether the relationship is worth saving.
16. Get out as fast as you can.
17. Go out with your friends, your family, and alone.